The 41-year-old wife has been diagnosed with menopause and cannot have children. Her husband criticized "You are no longer a woman" and finally divorced

Generally speaking, menopause refers to the years before and after women stop, and most women enter menopause between the ages of 49 and 52. Menopause is accompanied by the decline in hormones in women and the decrease in ovarian activities, and finally the "month period ends forever".

Many women often ignore that they are in menopause, and even do not realize that it may affect daily life. According to the Japanese media website Hint-Pot, a woman has developed menopause at the age of 41 and divorced her husband.

The visitor of the "sad truth"

learned after seeking medical treatment was an office worker with the pseudonym "Ms. Sasaki". She lives in Chiaye Prefecture and is 45 years old this year. She said that she entered menopause at the age of 41. She first found that her blood volume was gradually decreasing, and her monthly period was gradually deregulated.

Ms. Sasaki knew her husband who was 9 years younger than her at the age of 38, and decided to get married without considering it for too long. She was in a very happy state for several years after the marriage. Because her husband wanted to have a child as soon as possible, she also started to go to the nursery department near her home for consultation.

At the beginning, the couple were very happy about pregnancy. At that time, the maternity department also told Ms. Sasaki, "It's OK, let it go!" But one or two years later, she still has not been pregnant.

Sasaki said: "When I was not in my month-to-month period, I would have done my pregnancy test myself, but there was no result." Her period began to be late and later, and the condition of being unruly became more serious. At the age of 40, she felt shocked and anxious, so she went to a clinic that specialized infertility treatment.

"I thought it was a period of mistune, but it seemed that it was not just that"

After receiving various examinations at the clinic, the doctor told her that this was what she called "menopausal" and that there was also symptoms of bone relaxation. This was simply a bolt from the blue for Ms. Sasaki at that time.

41 years old and was diagnosed and could never have children again. Her husband died of divorce

Sasaki said that he did not feel any inappropriate physically or emotionally, so he did not realize that he was entering menopause. However, what shocked her was her husband's reaction after hearing the news.

"What? Can't you have children? Isn't you a woman? Is it meaningless for me to get married?" At that time, my husband said this to her.

Although Ms. Sasaki can now recall this with a smile, she said that it was as if the world was falling into darkness at that time, and it was the first time she had experienced this feeling in her life. After seeing her husband's reaction, she immediately decided to divorce, and her husband agreed readily, so the two of them separated after three years of marriage.

Sasaki said: "My husband is nine years younger than me, and he has just entered his thirties. He will never imagine or understand menopause." "Women are always women. No matter how many years old, she may think she can have children." She also joked humorously that her husband told her stupid words "the end of the month means she is no longer a woman." Only then can she be determined to divorce.

Now Sasaki is returning to her hometown to live with her parents, and continues to fight against bone relieving. In addition to taking medicine on a regular basis and paying attention to diet, he must also undergo blood tests and other tests every year. She also walks 5,000 steps with her dog every day, and she says about her current life: "It's much healthier than before menopause."

Even so, she still hopes to realize the occurrence of menopause sooner. Because I thought I could get pregnant easily at that time, I didn’t plan to get married and have children early.

Sasaki tells young women through her own experience that menopause may bring life impacts beyond physical symptoms. If you have a child in your life list, it is best to plan early with your companion and reach a common understanding.