The wife refused to go to her husband s house to eat big meals alone, but her husband complained and was suppressed: You are too superb

As the New Year is approaching, many daughters-in-law are beginning to worry about returning to their mother-in-law’s house after the New Year. A husband posted a message on the face club Bingbei Marriage 2.0, saying that he had to go to work on New Year's Eve and could not go home. He hoped that his wife could go back to her in-laws' house to eat big meals with her family, but was rejected. His wife said that she was more relaxed and interesting in her friend's house, which made him stunned. He couldn't help asking, "Do you think my request will exceed it?"

The original PO said that he had to work on New Year's Eve and hoped that his wife could go back to her in-laws' house to eat big meals by herself. Because his wife did not know how to cook, the family also said that she would prepare everything and did not need his wife to help her. The wife still said that since her husband was not here, she should not go back to her in-laws' house to eat alone. Yuan PO was stunned and felt that his wife was not rude to him. He also said that his wife's family is more powerful and he also supports his wife's approach, so he PO-network wants to let netizens evaluate it.

Networkers shouted for empathy, "Real thinking, if you want to go back to your wife's house in the second day of the junior high school today, but your wife asks you to go by yourself because she wants to work. Will you want to go back?", "What your family wants to see is you, and it's OK to send a representative back?", "It's your business that you can't accompany you. Why bother to drag your partner into the water? Is it awesome to eat with an unfamiliar boss? And the pressure is too high, so you won't bother to worry about others.", "If you are not here, your wife will be embarrassed when she goes back, not only her will be embarrassed, but the whole family will be embarrassed."

Someone proposed an alternative solution, "Mr. I have to go to work on New Year's Eve. I asked: Can I not go to your house for New Year's Eve to have a New Year's Eve? I will go back with you when you are on the first day of the New Year. He replied: OK, I will tell my mother again", "I will go to the stove one day earlier, and the couple should go in and out together, and they should not let her go at her in-laws' house alone on New Year's Eve", "It's better to wait for you to go back together on holiday", "My husband's wheel shift system , I also spent the New Year's Eve at my parents' home on New Year's Eve. I will go back to my mother-in-law's house on holidays, so I will give you a reference, "Is it better to tell my dad that the couple will work overtime?" "Isn't the meaning of eating during the New Year the family group? If your son is not there or your daughter-in-law is there, what kind of group is it? It's better to let your wife go back to her parents' home to have sex first, and you will go back to your house to have a meal together in the second day of the new year. For your dad, it will be more of a group."

Some people also think it depends on the relationship on weekdays, "If you are so close that you are like a family, you will go without you talking about it. If there is no, there is no need to do it", "If the in-laws are in a good relationship, just eat two or three hours, and help wash a bowl at the end, I think it's better, otherwise, it's over", "I can take my child to my mother-in-law's house by myself, as long as I have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, but not every woman can." Some people also think that as long as you go back to your in-laws' house, you can't be relaxed. "Although you say you don't have to help, you'll be even more upset when you're there" and "You say you don't have to help when you go back, so you'll hear it from ghosts? If you don't help when you go back, the next day, my mother-in-law will pick your wife up until she's flying."