As prices and housing prices increase, life is getting stronger and stronger, and more and more people are not married in Taiwan. "Life for one person" has become a common social phenomenon. A female netizen said that she was suffering fro...
As prices and housing prices increase, life is getting stronger and stronger, and more and more people are not married in Taiwan. "Life for one person" has become a common social phenomenon. A female netizen said that she was suffering from marriage and having children because she didn't plan to get married and have children. She would regret it when she got old. She wondered what she would regret? In this regard, Yuanqi.com asked everyone on his face fans’ page, "Do you regret not getting married?", which caused complaints from netizens about their own experience.
Modern people generally have low intentions in marriage and prefer a person's life. But most parents will marry their children and believe that "there will be regretful after they are not married." Is it better to have someone to be with you when you get married? Or is it better for a person to live? Let’s take a look at the different opinions of netizens.
Most netizens expressed their regret for getting married. "I regret it earlier after getting married, don't wait later", "Save a lot of trouble, will you be happy very quickly?", "I don't listen to the old man's words, and I'll be happy all year long", "I'll never get married or have a happy life", "I'll always be happy", "I have no other partner, I have half the problems", "I won't regret it! Marriage is the first step to truly regret", "I will regret it during the lover's day and the sacred day, and I will regret it when I'm old, no one will visit me, and there's nothing else", "My 70-year-old mother told me if I can If you come back, you won’t choose to marry”, “Why will your married brothers and sisters reject the responsibility of taking care of your parents?”, “If you regret it, you will not take back one of them after you regret it, you will not take it back”, “Don’t believe in marriage, it’s really good for a person,” “If your husband goes out and goes out, you will die of anger”, “You will regret it only after you get married, and you will feel that your life will regain your light after you leave”, “If you ask 10 women, will you still get married if you can? There will be 10 people who tell you not.”
Some netizens said they would not regret getting married. "If you are married, you are not afraid of being alone and lonely in your old age", "If you have an accident or be forced to be hospitalized at a time, at least your husband and children can come back to get hospital supplies, and only your family will sacrifice you for you", "It's not the current situation that you don't have the marriage concern! You should consider who can't walk when you are old and who can take care of you when you are sick. The money seems to be useful, but if you have huge changes, you may not be able to make ends meet", "Have a sincere heart People who love each other, support and care for each other, create a happy family together, and have no regrets in this life", "It is indeed good if you have a good partner, as long as you have a good partner", "I don't regret getting married, now my children and I live a happy life, and I can rely on each other to help each other", "I have no one to take care of you; but the times are different, and having a partner may not necessarily take care of you."
Some netizens also expressed other opinions. "Whether to marry is your choice. There must be some kind of commitment behind each choice. If you don't have a 100-point life, it's good to understand what you need. If you like to choose, you will be willing to accept it." "If you don't marry, you will regret it. There are pros and cons", "I'm afraid no one will give you a final! But if you have a child, it may not necessarily help you give it to you!", "The direction of giving is different! There is no difference between getting married or not, you want to see what your life is important", "If you don't have money, you will regret it", "Marriage is just a process of life. If your marriage is good, it's very lucky, but if your marriage is not a good marriage, you won't regret it." Good will cause resentment throughout your life", "No matter what decision you make, there are two different results, so choosing what you love, loving what you choose, cherishing yourself is the most important thing", "In fact, it is not a problem that you will never regret later, I hope you have a stable and family", "This sentence is worrying You will be old and have no one to accompany you! But the current time and space background is no longer suitable. You need to change to whether you have to make money and invest in money. If you have no money, you will regret it. "It's better to save a lot of pension, but it's best to have a house you can live in, because it's difficult to rent a house in a year."
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"Do 6 Things to Do" to prepare for the rest of your life after you are oldFor a person's life after he is old if he does not get married or have children, the following are some suggestions:
1. Economic planning and savings: Economic independence is very important! It is recommended to start saving and investing as soon as possible to ensure sufficient financial support in the elderly life.
2. Maintain physical health: Health is the basis of everything. Pay attention to diet, exercise, regular health checks, and avoid bad habits in life.
3. Good social activities: Even a person can expand the social circle by participating in social activities, joining clubs or volunteer groups, and establishing friendship and support systems.
4. Pet companionship: Many studies have shown that being with pets can reduce the feeling of loneliness and increase the fun of life. Raising a pet may be a good choice.
5. Long-term care plan: Consider long-term care arrangements that may be required in the future, such as applying for long-term care 2.0 or purchasing long-term care insurance to address health problems that may arise during old age.
6. Make plans for the elderly in advance: When you are young, please make plans for the life in advance, including the place of residence, lifestyle, health care, etc., to ensure that the elderly’s life is sufficient and of quality.
No matter whether you have married and have children, or live alone, you can live a life that is full and happy. The key is how to plan and manage your own life, be the master of your own life, and spend every day fully and happily. Marriage is like a city. Whether you get married or not, you will have a choice of regret in the end. People who are not married may regret it, and people who are married may also be full of regret. Which one would you choose?
