I didn t do a wedding to save money. My parents forced her to book a wedding and open three tables to make her feel so devastated

Can't we just register for marriage? A female netizen posted a post in "The Commune of Breaking Resentment" that she is now three months pregnant. In order to save money to raise her children, she only plans to register her marriage from a simple login. Unexpectedly, her parents were worried about being said to be casual and strongly asked her to book a wedding and wear a gift suit, and at least she had to open three tables of banquets to ask relatives, which would cause the original PO to collapse. Shi said, "Don't you think about this time for your daughter. Can you save money?"

According to the content of the post, in order to save money, this female netizen originally planned to register for marriage in the morning and eat a meal together in the evening. Everything is fine, "I didn't expect that there are more and more opinions now." The female netizen said helplessly that because her parents were worried about being told by their relatives, they began to ask themselves to wear gift clothes and make wedding banquets, and even invited relatives whom they had met once a few years and were not familiar with at all. "Okay, now you have to open at least 3 tables if you become a couple."

The amount of money spent on marriage is unthinkable! A female netizen pointed out that it was because she wanted to invite many friends to have wedding banquets, and she planned to dress up the gifts simply, but now she not only needs to spend money on dressing, but what made her say was that the cost of the wedding would not be paid for a penny, and even the red bags of relatives would be taken away, and the couple would bear the sales.

This female netizen wanted to stop the incident and hoped to save the money and use it as a parenting fund. Therefore, she protested to her father, "Are you inviting those people to come and have fun? I might as well keep those money for the table or use it in other places." She didn't expect that she was scolded by her father, "I was talking to my family before I even got married." What do you think of even the family? Are you still my family?"

The original PO helplessly revealed in the post that his parents actually had different treatments. "When my parents sold the house, they only paid the first payment for the purchase of the house for their brother, but they didn't get a penny. Now they are talking about those families who are not family members. "At the same time, the original PO also believed, "Don't you think about this kind of time for your daughter. Can you save money? Besides, my child has not yet been born, I am afraid of being idle by relatives. It's only been a few years since I saw it once, but I'm afraid of what idleness?"

As soon as the post was published, many people also felt quite moved, "The wedding is really unreasonable," They are tired and wasteful", "Elders love to respect young people's wishes, and finally come to see a few more horses and candids", but there are also netizens who say kindly, "Love is the business of two people, and marriage is the business of two families, so you can't get angry if you communicate well", "Madam may not want your daughter to follow others inexplicably."

Because weddings are a business of two families, it is impossible for one person to think that everything is fine. There will be a lot of friction during the process. Therefore, mothers have specially compiled three common opinions and dissonances for weddings:

Different wedding customs

No matter what customs can be extended to this day, it must be reasonable, but the times have changed constantly, and customs are adjusted accordingly. You don’t have to follow blindly. As long as you are interested, some processes are omitted, which not only saves trouble, but also reduces unnecessary friction!

Bad communication

Everything is the same, especially when marriages often occur. Marriage is a combination of two families. Couples should be responsible for the bridge between the two families. Whether they ask the opinions of both parents or send messages, they should take special attention and pay attention!

The husband does not actively participate in preparation

Usually the bride will prepare weddings more actively, and the groom will look like it has nothing to do with things. During the wedding preparation process, although most of it is related to the bride (because it is beautiful or not), it may seem to have nothing to do with the groom at first glance, but even if the decision is not in the hands of the groom, the groom must express his opinions with ruthlessness. Remember, marriage is a grand event where couples only have one time!